Deconstruction is/is not the (a) process (end result) that reveals/reinforces binary oppositions [samenesses] as dependent/independent upon each other/same. Priviledged (subordinate) terms gain/loose superiority/inferiority by excluding (including) the non-priviledged (also-priviledged?) term. To be/not be, to be present (absent) subjects/flows divide/incorporate the not-me (me) from the me (not-me). In other words you can't be what you are because you are what you aren't. Deconstruction digests the food and shows that it was fecies all along.
Binary Opposition Metaphysics of Presence Phallogocentrism